Kids’ Packing Checklist: Building independence ahead of travel


Are you hitting the road or taking to the skies for the holidays? I have a tool that might help you share the mental load of preparing for travel. Here is my kids’ Packing Checklist. Here is a version with pictures instead of words. This has been an awesome tool to build both my kids’ independence and sense of responsibility.

This checklist has seen lots of tweaks borne of travel mishaps. Once, I forgot to add pajamas to the list, which made settling in on our first night really hard. Another time, a child who’d jumped in the car after playing in the yard arrived to our summer lake weekend barefoot and without a single pair of shoes packed. Most recently, one of the kids followed the checklist marvelously to pack his bag BUT said left the bag sitting on the bedroom floor—something we didn’t realize until we were hundreds of miles from home. So take advantage of our fumbles, and print yourself a copy with text or with pictures.


  • Slide the checklist into a clear page protector/binder sleeve. Use dry or wet erase markers to add quantities next to listed items, add items, and provide notes, etc.
  • Place the suitcase and the list in your child’s room a few days before travel. The concrete reminder lets them know that the task of packing is ahead. You may want to do this on a weekend so there’s time to support if a) your child jumps right in or b) anxiety or confusion arise.
  • Set realistic expectations. Depending on your child’s ability and experience, you may need to pack together, referencing the list. Maybe your child can pack on his or her own but could use a suitcase check with a parent or sibling before zipping it closed.
  • Bring the checklist and markers along on your trip. Use it as you pack to leave. Not only does this reduce the chances of forgetting things, but it may help ease the transition to departure.

As with many of the tools we share here, this checklist is helpful for all kinds of kids and adults too. Safe travels!

Email me at if you’d like an editable version of this checklist.

Click to access PicsMy-Packing-List.pdf


Author: Beth

Beth is a wife, mother, researcher and connector. She has two elementary-aged kids, one who is differently wired with autism. Beth has done graduate work and consulting related to youth development and community engagement. She loves advocating for authentic community engagement and contributions of kids and families impacted by autism. She lives in Hopkins, MN.

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